Friday, November 04, 2011

Understanding Your Infatuation

by Daniel Chiam




I know I have a guideline for almost everything in life. Including relationship. The reason why I was struggling through that period of time where I have an infatuation for a girl, is just simply because I know its not the right thing to do, as it was already way off course from the guideline that I have set.

Sometimes, the feeling of infatuation can be misunderstand as 'love' when it is actually only a temporary desire which is being triggered by the circumstances that's affecting you. Maybe you were lonely, you just got out of a bad relationship, or because it's just a peer pressure. 

If you could only understand where that feeling comes from, then you'll be able to determine whether you are actually in love or it's just merely an infatuation. I don't wish to get into a wrong relationship, which in the end just could not work out for the both of us.

Some of you might say, I shouldn't be afraid and just take the risk, some risk are worth taken, you never try you'll never know... Well, I have seen and heard a lot about the successful and the failure of one relationship among my circles of friends and their circles of friends. 

I know that everyone is different but some principals are still remain the same no matter who you are. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a perfect girl for a perfect relationship, because I am not perfect also. I just wanted to find the one that I can start off in a right way and hopefully end up like every fairy tale stories - they live happily ever after.





"Seize the day, Caper Diem"


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11 comments:

  1. Aki BorneoNovember 4, 2011 at 9:09 AM

    Relax mah der.. Syok juga tu bujang.. Ko buat keputusan 1rg ja.. Ha ha ha.. Yang best kalau becinta ni,time malam ja.. Ha ha ha..

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  2. shaira parveenNovember 4, 2011 at 10:44 AM

    "I don't wish to get into a wrong relationship, which in the end just could not work out for the both of us.,"

    me too but that's what happened between us. ergh, i cant afford for another heartbreak. nonononono

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  3. Dinah SamuelNovember 4, 2011 at 11:34 AM

    sss

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  4. edith thomasNovember 4, 2011 at 1:14 PM

    I understand this kind of situation. Been there. I thought I fall in love with that someone, but it merely due to 'infatuation'. Hee~ But its ok. Your someone is somewhere near you. It just a matter of time before you meet her. So.. Just relax for the time being.. ;p

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  5. edith thomasNovember 4, 2011 at 1:16 PM

    betul.. full name terkeluar habis.. ;p

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  6. Daniel ChiamNovember 4, 2011 at 1:18 PM

    Actually you can

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  7. meitzeu leeNovember 4, 2011 at 5:23 PM

    But if you could find one perfect girl, that's a BLISS!!

    Chill~ Daniel!

    Meitzeu
    http://www.facebook.com/meitzeupage

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  8. CherrieMiaNovember 4, 2011 at 5:40 PM

    Don't rush :) the best yet to come..hmm betul kaitu...lebih kurang lah.

    I was at long distance wrong relationship for like almost 6years but end up with nothing when both graduated from uni.

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  9. aemy shamyNovember 4, 2011 at 9:43 PM

    there's no rush in love, buddy. someday you will find the right one. everyone will. a right woman is waiting for you out there, only time will find you both. :)

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  10. beatyNovember 4, 2011 at 10:38 PM

    DC, God already prepared someone special for you. Don't worry...

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  11. FdemuinckNovember 5, 2011 at 3:18 AM

    Very good picture.

    Greetings,
    Filip

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